17 Sep The words “adult virgin male” perhaps evoke the caricature of an overweight, socially awkward figure, heavy into gaming and confined to the solace of his mother's basement. In what appears to be the obverse situation to “slut-shaming” females for high sexual activity, the heterosexual adult virgin male is. 14 Jul Dear Alice,. Simply I want to know (excuse me for my english, but I'm an Italian boy) how a male can be recognized as virgin. My friends say that the frenulum broke when you do for the first time it's true? Your Little Confused Italian. (2). Dear Alice,. I was reading the question about male virginity recognition. 30 May On Monday, I talked a little about the toxic culture surrounding masculinity and how it hurts men. Today, I want to start the conversation to help dismantle it. And one of the best places to start is to talk about sex. Specifically: male virginity and the shame in not having sex. One of the things that I've seen come.