8 Jan You can warm up to stimulation by using your (well-lubricated) finger or fingers to caress the area (many people enjoy simultaneous masturbation while their partner goes down on them). Start by licking the perineum (the area between the penis or vagina and anus) to get your partner used to the sensation. A blow job without a condom is an often requested sex act in sex work. In a film on this page we explain why it is better for your health to give blow jobs with a condom. Also you find information about vaginal licking (cunnilingus) and anal licking (rimming). You probably have clients who want oral sex without a condom. 16 Apr For those of you who get an instant hard-on at the thought of me sucking on your starfish, I should note that I'm not into licking just any person's anus. vaginal intercourse, 89 percent of women and 90 percent of men have had oral sex, and 36 percent of women and 44 percent of men have had anal sex.