9 Dec There's a lot of misinformation out there about hymens, and trying to clear them up in conversation can be awkward. But occasionally, it turns out it can also be really funny, such as in the College Humor "Truth About Hymens and Sex" video. So fro. 13 May As it was for many women before me, and will be for many after, losing my virginity was no easy feat. It was painful, it was non-pleasurable, and it was one big messy mess mess after the not so funny fun fun. But for me it was the most extreme form of “not an easy feat” there ever could be. I couldn't locate a. 16 Dec I haven't even seen hymens labeled in my high school sex ed courses. No one talks about it! Why? As soon as you find out what sex is, everyone tells you that the loss of your virginity is marked by a penis entering your vagina and tearing your hymen (this is where the phrase “getting your cherry popped”.